Being humans we need a goal to focus on in life to grow further but while approaching that goal we need directions. The direction we choose in our lives can make or destruct us completely depends on the choices of the paths we take to travel. For selecting your path you need to make some good decisions. Decision making is really tough. Your decisions can result in happiness and sadness in moments. Reading this article, you will be able to make the right decisions whether in career, in love & relationship or in your spiritual path.
Before going further, I want to ask you a question.
Are you completely free to live your life the way you want?
What's your answer? A big YES or NO?
Well, deep down we all want to live our lives the way we want but generally we tend to live our lives based on our fears.
Fear of losing someone you love:
You know that this is the good decision but the fear that if you make that particular decision it can make your wife or husband or child or parents unhappy, prevent you to decision making.
Fear of losing your job:
You always avoid making those decisions that you want to take but can make your boss or customer unhappy at your workplace.
Fear of losing material possession:
You are in fear to decisions making that can make you lose things you possess, your money, your luxurious lifestyle.
Fear of losing self-image:
You are afraid to lose identity so you have to adjust and make compromises while making choices.
It happened to me recently. I think my decision to quit my corporate job was the dumbest decision I have ever made till now. Though while doing that job I was unable to think properly, I always felt that job not worth doing. At that time I took the decision to leave that job based on my intuitions.
But sometimes I think we misunderstand our feelings with intuitions. Our mind plays with us, with our feelings. I always thought marketing was not my cup of tea. Neither it was.
But, Today, after 2 months of leaving that marketing job, I realised that it was the dumbest step I have taken. Now, I am just regretting my decision.
But as a great man said that Never regret your decision as it is all you wanted once. So, I am just looking for a new job in the marketing field again.
Hope to get one soon.
So, the purpose of writing this is to make you remember that sometimes confusion of intuitions with insight can make us fool too. Though, I would not say that intuitions are always wrong.
Importance of decision making is tremendous but the decisions based on intuitions can go wrong as intuition can be influenced with our feelings.
And some feelings works in a particular amount of time, they are temporary and drive us to make the decision in a rush which can not be as good as we want that to be.
Decision Making Process
For making decisions and choices in your life, you just need to consider some of the following rules, though, not particular rules but things to remember while choosing away. Let's see the steps in Decision Making.
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1. Find the reasons
Before making choices ask yourself some questions regarding that and make a list of all the possible reasons.
What are the reasons behind making choices?
Why do you need to choose that particular decision?
What can be the good and bad outcomes of that decision?
2. Find the Feelings behind that Reason
Feelings are a very important part of our life and sometimes (Almost all the time), our feelings have a major impact on our decision making. So before deciding anything you must need to consider your feelings.
If the reason you found for your choice is based on any negative feeling like fear, guilt, regret then be alert because the decision you are going to take is a wrong one.
And if the reason is based on inner freedom, love, happiness then you can go ahead, its the only decision you have to choose.
3. Release the negative emotions
If you find that all your choices are based on fear, guilt or any other negative emotions then you must release all your negative thoughts before making any decision, you must ask yourself why you have that fear or guilt and how it should not affect your choices.
And if some of your choices are based on negative emotions while others are on positivity then you need to release the negativity from those that contain it and consider again all of your decisions and make your final decision.
Remember, negative emotions and thoughts create dark energy, and dark energy only creates destruction. Thoughts and emotions are also the forms of energy, so, releasing this kind of thoughts are must as this can bring all sorts of unwanted problems in life.
The people who are fearless, free from all sorts of negative thoughts always have the freedom to choose what they want for themselves, they truly live their lives the way they want.
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