"Love brings fear"
I read it somewhere today and it really hit deeply like why it is so.
This starts with the very moment when we say 'I love you' to someone - the fear of not hearing it back. And if we hear it back then in the second moment a fear of losing that love we just found arise.
Why you greet fear the moment you pledge your highest love?
Isn't it thoughtful?
The reason I got is here. There are many emotions we face in our life- happiness, joy, resentment, anger, anxiety, depression. But our all actions are deeply motivated only by one of the two emotions i.e. Love and fear.
These two emotions are completely opposite and while we in the one the second one already disappears.
Apart from love and fear there is no other motivations for human actions and all other emotions are just derivatives of these two. Read why relationships fail.
Anger, anxiety, regret, hate and all other negative emotions are the common derivatives of fear while happiness, peace, satisfaction and all other positive emotions are the derivatives of love.
We don't have any other choice and can't choose our action outside of these two feelings but at the same time we are absolutely free to choose one of these. Let me do easy for you to choose.
Fear contracts, love expands
Fear closes down, love opens up
Fear draws in, love sends out
Fear runs, love stays
Fear hides, love reveals
Fear hoards, love shares
Fear harms, love heals.
So we must choose love. But do we really choose love? Even if we choose love there always stays fear in that and this fear based love reality dominates our experience of love.
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If we give love, we always expect it to receive it in the same way and so there remains a fear of not getting it in the same way. This is because we never love unconditionally.
By our own thoughts and emotions we never allow ourselves to experience pure love.
And this is not the case of love relationships only but of every human actions we encounter like business, industry, education, economic goal, every choice every decision we undertake ever are based on one of these two possible thoughts - love or fear.
Should I tell you a interesting thing? All the decisions all the actions we ever take are majorly based on the fear. 9 out of 10 people chooses fear based decisions over love based. Know Why?
This is because of the society we living in. The society that taught us to live in fear, taught us to be fittest, strongest, cleverest because to be less mean is to lose in this society. And so we always choose fear, our insecurities dominates us everytime we need to make a choice.
Why it's hard to choose love?
Though love brings peace, you do not choose love because it's hard to give up your fears, give up your fear of failure, your fear of losing your job, your loved ones, your reputation, your identity, fear of death.
It is because we try to control everything, we never try on surrendering our results to the Highest Power.
Just imagine if there is no fear of losing someone. Imagine if there is nothing that can stop you to achieve your dreams. Imagine if there are no fear of failure. Think about it and imagine how different your life would be?
This is only possible when you choose love over fear everytime you find yourself in a situation of choosing something. Read the 3 Steps to make the right choices.
How to know if its love emotion or a fear emotion?
To do this you must turn aside all the teaching you have received till now from all worldly teachers and should hear the little voice within.
This voice is the loudest and closest voice we have. It tells us everything whether its right or wrong, good or bad.
It is the voice that tells you whether the words you are reading now are of fear or love.
Fear wraps our bodies in clothing,
Love allows us to stand naked.
Fear clings to all that we have,
Love gives all that we have away.
Fear holds close, love holds dear.
Fear grasps, love lets go.
Fear rankles, love soothes.
Fear attacks, love amends.
Now you decide, whether you are choosing love or fear?
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