We always want to be perfect. Perfect in everything we do. And here I'm to tell you that how can you be perfect - just perfect, both, as a person and as in look. Here's the thing: Perfection is not possible. Perfection is an age-old myth that creates more pain than joy, more confusion than calm, more angst than creative productivity. Being perfect is a farcical fantasy that distracts us from being present.
How to achieve perfection?
Still, if you want the perfection, read ahead
Prepare yourself mentally and physically
Focus on your goal
Convert negativity to positivity
Understand your content
Practice makes perfect
Be authentic
Post speech evaluation
Once I saw an advertisement for fair skin cream and thought why an advertisement of a cream, just why, who the hell are the people who need this advertisement to see. After all, why will someone buy a fair cream? Consider this...
To get a girl/boy, you need to be fair. To get a job, you need to be fair. To get stardom, of course you need to be fair. Even to get happiness, you need to be fair. Isn't it laughable? A high level of stupidity. Is this you call perfection?
This approach of putting down dark skin and reinforcing the inherent belief of White is beautiful is admittedly negative.
From that day I started to notice every single commercial that appeared either on television or newspaper. Slowly I noticed that it is not only the case of fair creams but almost everything.
In life insurance ads, they will make you afraid of your illness or even of your death and provoke you to take the insurance.
‘Don’t try to be perfect' by Sadhguru – YouTube
In fairness creams or soaps ads, they will make you ashamed of your dark skin colour and will tell you that you are not gonna get any date and thus will compel you to buy their products. According to that particular face wash company, that pimple is hiding your beauty. Really? You cannot unwrap your hair because of its roughness. So please buy a particular shampoo and only then you can swing your hair proudly. This active persuasion of a negative approach must not be accepted. But I don't think these are gonna ban or something. Know why? Who is responsible for that? The society? But society comprises of whom? Us, yes.
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Only we are responsible for this behaviour of these ads. It's us who want to be beautiful. It's us who watch these ads and get influence. It's us who do not like movies having actors with dark skin or actor without six-pack abs.
My friend, a dark skin boy doesn't feel comfortable around us. That beautiful girl in our group is not satisfied with herself because she is fat. That girl in your office doesn't feel confident in wearing short dresses because of her skinny legs. Why?
Why can't we accept ourselves as we are? Why we need acceptance from others? Don't we know that everyone can not be perfect? If one was perfect, it wouldn't be.
‘Don’t try to be perfect' by Sadhguru – YouTube So, stop striving to be beautiful. Stop trying to be perfect. You don't need to be perfect. You are just beautiful as you are. Imperfections are underrated. Isn't that pimple on your cheek is beautiful? Don't you think that those waves flowing like a river in your hair are amazing? Why you need synthetic beauty when you are naturally beautiful? Why applying loads of chemicals just to look attractive, if only your smile can make you look pretty? You don't need those beauty products to be pleasing. You don't need acceptance from others to be awesome. “To be beautiful means to be yourself. You don’t need to be accepted by others. You need to accept yourself.” – Thich Nhat Hanh
Turn aside all these things and just smile because you are not perfect. Neither you can't.
Oh, Man! The hairstyle you have is irresistible but your bald head is smashing.
Your long curly rough hair is stunning and you look glamorous with straight hair.
Those six-pack abs make you hot and your weediness is comely.
Why you should be perfect when your imperfections are so beautiful?
Always remember
“There are two kinds of perfect: The one you can never achieve, and the other, by just being yourself.” – Lauren King
Just embrace the imperfections in you because accepting yourself with imperfections make you perfect and that is amazingly beautiful.
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