There was a time when there were no civic norms or laws for a man and woman to get sexually involved with each other. It existed both meant to reproduce and carnal satisfaction and there was no taboo of any types that prevailed.
But human history has evolved over time and now the sex is considered bad. It is, I think, the biggest misconceptions about the sex that it has given a bad name in our society and that bad name has been induced in our memory to the extent that sometimes saying the word 'sex' brings a feeling like we have said something forbidden thing.
Before going forward let's have a look at the meaning of sex.
We relate to sex in two terms
Number one is self-gratification means to meet your body needs, to quench your physical cravings for pleasure to enjoy a few minutes. It's just like feeling hungry and eating tasty food to satisfy your hunger for a few hours. Read how to control lust of object gratification.
Number two is self transcendental means to enter into the path of self-knowledge and to connect to the Divine. It's a doorway where we feel fulfilled, connected and whole.
And it's not surprising to see that for our society, sex is just an objective or a fantasy. People watch it as a spectator through porn and take it for granted. Trust me, people take it for granted the human flesh they are connected with.
Generally, people use sex as a way to escape their loneliness, to satisfy their horniness and to unload their stress. They use sexuality as a distraction from intimacy rather develop it. Upon getting energetic, hot and excited they only go for shallow genital sex by shutting down their feelings.
And in this, they find it's frightening to go into the deeper routes of the full-body, they are just afraid of the intensity of connection they get while looking into the eyes of each other.
This genital sex is amazing but as I say in every post of mine that there is more what we already know. Let me repeat it, there is much more. There always is. And sexuality also has much more to offer.
And no one is stopping you to attain that but you, your fear to explore each other that might cause pain and your judgment about sex that its bad.
Sure, sex can unload your stress, it makes you relieved for a little while, you feel more connected for a few minutes and your horniness will be relieved for a while but only to come back in a few days craving to get satisfied again.
Other aspect of sex
The sexual parts of the body are avenues to the enjoyment that generate frequencies that heal and energize the body and potentially guide it to its higher pure self.
But sex is so misunderstood in our society that when it is exchanged between two people, they are rarely intended to connect spirituality with it. They make it more like physical activity.
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What do You need to know about Sexuality?
You need to understand that sexuality is a frequency that has not taken away from you in any lifetime. Your identity, memories, body get change in every life but your sexuality remains there. Always as it is. And being you a human, you got this opportunity to explore yourself, to connect your spiritual self through your sexuality instead of going through same genital sexual pleasure like animals.
Interestingly we never taught this anywhere in any school. Neither our parents taught this. Why? Why this ability to discover ourselves through sexuality is kept from us.
Who is there behind this keeping it away from us. Preachers? Yeah, preachers of religion. I am so sorry if anyone gets hurt today but tell me if it is so bad then
How and why such a belief of condemning sex came to pass anyway?
Why there is a whole written catalogue 'Kamasutra'?
Why many of our ancient temples have erotic sculptures and still considered pure?
Why we have a God for sex- Kama?
How and why did a perfectly natural acceptance of sex - going all the way back to the caveman - suddenly go awry?
Is it fear and loathing of nakedness? Yeah, it is, because nakedness is a gateway to sex and everybody knows nakedness is bad. But why? Isn't that shows us the real us without clothes? Then what's wrong in accepting the truth?
Preachers will never tell you that instead, they will tell you that sex is only for procreation, for reproduction or for serving men by women. They will tell you that you have no control over the birthing process rather than saying that only you decide whether you give birth or not.
If a woman knew this a several thousand years ago, she would have explored her sexual self without fear of having a child. Only then women and men could have realized themselves as much freer as they were been informed.
And to bound us more, they have set a rule of monogamy, a rule of one marriage in our society and it works really well for most of the people but still, there are some who don't go well with their partners and always remain in search of a fulfilled relationship.
Again for this, I will say that there are people who are so stuck to their ethics that no matter how worse the situation is they never leave their relationship at the end. While there are others who find pleasure in having more than one partner to meet their sexual desires.
Some clarity on more than one sexual partners
When you have a partner more than once, you tend to hide your true self as you become less honest with your partner. You only share little here and little there and thus scattered your seed. So its best to be with one person.
No, it doesn't mean to be with the same person forever but be loyal, be open with the person you are currently with and go as far as you can with them. If it works for the lifetime that's wonderful but if it doesn't and feel like that you both are not serving each other and unable to make a leap then terminate the relationship and look for another person who is compatible with your vibrations.
When you work one on one intimately then you develop trust and trust is necessary for any relationship, as relationships are the mirror that reflects you, it shows you what you can not see yourself.
Sex is a medium to discover yourself
Yes, Sex is a medium to explore yourself no matter what you discover and for that, you need to stop judging and to get neutral with your sexual experience.
Remember it may seem heinous, difficult or may involve violation but it should not affect your ability to experience it neutrally. Because your only purpose is to know your true self through your experience.
Believe me, it doesn't matter whether your relationship is homosexual or heterosexual, the thing matter is two beings bringing the pleasure of the highest attainment to each other. This is only possible when there is love and you have the ability to explore that love.
Conclusively sex is a practice of giving and receiving a greater amount of love for the purpose of discovering your own self. Just look intensely into one another's eyes and explore the deeper routes of the full body of each other.
Once you learn this you will never be doing this to gratify your own desires or to soothe your own insecurities but to move beyond the limitations of the human body. I assure you that it will give you an eternal fountain that will quench your thirst and satisfy your hunger for a lifetime.
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