Do you ever think that what you think wrong actually might be right? Or the things you do, why do you do them in aa particular manner? What's the definition of wrong? Why you always have to choose right? Who decides what's right? What if nothing is wrong?
Some guidelines are always there comprises of what should and what should not be done like We should be good to the people every time, We should respect others and should be in order, We should not make other people angry. The list has an endless number of such should and shouldn’t. Why should we do things in our life by listening from someone else to be in order? And tell me why we need to be in order at first place?
What's wrong?
Why do we need to be in order?
What’s the need to be good all the time?
Who makes these rules?
Who sets these guidelines?
Who decides what should and shouldn’t be done?
And why someone decides so?
We all grow up like that only in amidst of righteousness and wrongdoings. We have learned enough about the right and wrong, dos and don’t, should and shouldn’t.
But no one, no one ever told why?
Why you have to choose the right?
Why someone else tells us to get more marks?
Why we should choose that college-board prep courses?
Why we should choose a particular career and that too before turning 20 or 25?
Why should we need to marry to have sex?
And why even should we marry and that too at a particular age?
What’s wrong if we do not work according to the rules?
What’s wrong if we are wrong?
Is it God who we are afraid of?
Is it hell we are afraid going in?
Why are we threatened to be good?
And again who decides what is good and what is bad?
What if bad means good and good means bad?
What if all rights we have been doing since ages are all wrong?
And what if all we think wrong is actually right?
I always thought that surely God has constructed all these rules but then there is another question – Why she gave us the option to break the rules if she wanted us to be in order why didn’t he make us in total perfection?
If anyone has the answers, great! And if not then come forward with me with my truth, with your truth.
It is because the God, the highest power, wants us to be who we truly are. She wants us to experience the ‘actual we’. I know some of you will call me crazy but sooner or later you will become attracted to this truth.
I know, parents (being a part of society) think best for us but the right to determine our direction must be ours. Though, that’s not their only fault as they have lived the life in that way. But we, our first relationship is with ourselves then why not making our self complete first.
Look at your life now and answer me some of the below questions…
Are you living the life of your dreams?
What is your ideal self? What does it mean to be your highest self?
If you have one year left to live, what would you do?
If you have one month left to live, what would you do?
If you have one week left to live, what would you do?
If you have one day left to live, what would you do?
If you have an hour left to live, what would you do?
If you have one minute left to live, what would you do?
What would you do today if there is no more tomorrow?
You know answer. Right? You will fulfil your dreams that you never dared to do before.
Now just stop. Just for a moment, stop. Ask yourself
Think as if nothing is wrong.
Why you are so fearful?
Why you are so afraid to take risks?
What obstacles are stopping you to do the things you want to?
Are you afraid of what others will think of you?
Are you afraid of your reputation?
What’s there to lose?
What is the worst that can happen?
Are you content to the live rest of my life this way?
Let me tell you a secret – You are your own rule maker’s it’s you who set the guidelines for you. And only you know what you are and what you are doing. Only you know what you want to be and what you want to do.
In your life there are no should or shouldn’t. Do what you want to do. Do what pleases you. Do what reflects you. You no need to concern with the acceptance and approval of the world’s it’s your life, hold it in your hands.
“Do you want your life to truly take off? Then change your idea about it. About you. Think, speak and act as the God you are.”
And for this you must need to think of your highest version, just think what you want to be and forgive yourself for everything you thought wrong at the time and forgive people who you thought were harsh to you.
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You must have to go beyond understanding and make changes in this world, world based on certain belief systems. You have to improve this society, repair relationships, and forgive others.
Sharpen your focus, reset your values, get out of the rut and do what you want to do without judging and condemning.
Nothing is wrong
Stop analysing its pros and cons.
Stop worrying about what others will think.
Stop ruminating about its rightness or wrongness.
Stop judging yourself for your thoughts.
Stop punishing yourself for the action that evokes anger or illness in others.
Don’t allow others anger to stop you in making your own decision because it’s not you but their insecurities that make them angry. Fearing this anger can hold you back.
Your only task is to experience your true self because experience transcends belief. Learn to experience things as they actually are. Learn to do whatever you want to do. But in the process remember you have to experience yourself without harming others as your life is yours and there is theirs.
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What If There Is Nothing Wrong With You is a book and practice about:
Dissolving and dismantling your belief that something is wrong with you and replacing that belief with what is ... exactly that, nothing more, nothing less.
Redefining your personal path to a new interpretation of right and wrong.
Discovering the satisfaction of adopting this new perspective, and how to best use it every day for a more productive and fulfilling life.
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