It has become hard for people to trust others nowadays. Many of you can relate to be suspicious of other people’s motives no matter how genuine they are. It feels naive to trust others easily. Not only to self, but to closed ones too, you give advice not to trust people in their life.
Why don't you trust others?
This happens because you had been betrayed by someone once, it may be your romantic partner, a friend or a colleague. And in order to avoid that pain you try to stay away from all those people or situation which can harm you again in the same way.
Let me tell you about my distrust mechanism. I not only avoid getting close to people but a normal conversation too. And if I have some people close to me I remain ready to hurt by them. I always think other person is going to harm me in one way or another so I wait for the time when they will expose their true nature. Well…..! I’m learning to trust others now.
Why should you trust others
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1. Mistrusting someone means you're not trusting yourself
Whenever someone had betrayed you, you stood, hold up your arms and let the things go. You healed and built a better life. You knew, after betrayal you can pick up yourself and grow again. So if you can handle yourself so beautifully alone then why you're afraid of trusting. Here is the thing…you don’t trust others because you think that if they will betray you, you won’t be able to cope up with that. That means you don’t trust yourself enough. If you trust yourself enough to have a general sense of ‘I, as a person, am appropriate to handle life’, then you know that no one can truly abandon you as an adult.
2.Trusting others helps you grow
What you think of outcomes of trusting others completely? Just two. Either you will got a person for lifetime to lean on or a life lesson. Both are helpful. A betrayal gives you a challenge to pick your pieces up and come up with a new attitude which is stronger, sharper and clearer. Ernest Hemingway once said “The best way to find out if you can trust anybody is to trust them.” So start trusting people. Start trusting their genuineness. And l let go of your suspicious nature towards them.
3.Trusting people opens you up for love or any other relationship
If you have ever been deceived in the past then it becomes difficult to trust others which prevents you to open up in front of people. It becomes challenging to put your trust fully into someone. But you know when you trust someone completely you initiate happiness, love and abundance into your life and others.
It allows you to open to receive more love from the universe as you start living in the present without worrying about past or future.
So, just learn to live in the present and trust people more. Everything else will be taken care by itself.
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